WHINGING
“Relentless verbal grumbling --- the exaggerated, high-pitched nasal sound – A continuous stream of dissatisfaction --” (From Google)
Yep, that is what I mean when I use that word. I may like using the word when regarding others but I do not like the word when and if it is applied to me. I prefer the softer words like complaining or grumbling. Whinging brings with it body language, a negative aura, habitual behavior; “a (withheld) do something about it response.” Hanging whinging on someone else is also judgmental and not a good look.
When I step back and give this some thought, I find that I now may refrain from the quick use of that word in discussions of expressing one's opinion or situation. I do not want to observe myself whinging so maybe I best not be quick to toss in “whinging” just because I like the word. I am going to be softer henceforth but cannot promise that it may not surface when I am annoyed beyond self-control.
What prompts this is my discussion two posts back regarding not wanting to cook a meal being a thing folks may “complain” about more often than not. I have been fortunate enough in this lifetime to have grown up in and always being included in good food prepared by competent cooks who enjoy the job.
I enjoy cooking and still rely much on those who have taught me and at whose table I have enjoyed many a good meal. Much in the daily living of my years and memories revolves around a good meal and conversations. From a beer and pizza downtown to the large family traditional seasonal meals to daily family breakfasts, lunches and dinners.
Someone in these past years has always provided good eats accompanied by the wellness of a “homey” feeling. The smell of bread baking, a pot of soup or stew simmering in the kitchen, or fresh-baked cookies, pies and cakes that write the last paragraph of a day. And this was never ever measured by money but rather by talent, skill sets and the open desire of a person who enjoys folks around his or her table.
This person is still standing when all others are sitting at the table. This person hovers for a few minutes longer, pacing around the table, taking measure that no one is wanting. Then and only then will that person sit down and still spend most of her/his time insuring the wellness of all who sit through the meal. It is an art form and may go unnoticed by the passerby.
Walk into this person's home anytime of the day and there is always offered up a cup of coffee, a cup of tea, good conversation, laughing, teasing and a slice of something home made.
These days, one of my sisters-in-law comes to mind. I so enjoy walking into her home kitchen to always find her in the doing of several things at once all the while visiting with darn near everyone in the kitchen. Steam off pots on the stove, some stirring or pushing of buttons on an oven or quick-heating device. She may seem distracted but she is not. I find a chair “with my name on it” and sit like I might at an event. She is art form in motion and has perfected her time moving about the kitchen. I so love to tease her but have learned that she takes deeply to heart teasing (that is just that) regarding the meal she is preparing. The dishes she presents and the table set as finished are worth the trip to the big city. When she finally sits down to join all of us, it is a grand moment in my book.
Quite often now and over this past year, lunch and dinnertime here may come and neither the bride nor I have anything prepared for our table. We both are given to honesty in not wanting to cook and have not or did not. And she will also offer up a no desire clause for any post meal clean-up.
Every time, within all of this, we seem to find something from the shelves and drawers in the refrigerator. A baloney wrap, peanut butter on toast, remains of a green salad or chips and dip. Mixing up a “bag o'tuna” in oil with some mayonnaise is not cooking. A bowl of corn flakes can be gourmet eating with little to no effort. The point here is more often than not, the not-planned meal can be quite satisfying.
APPLE CAKE
A few slices of gifted apple cake last week prompted us (her) into wanting to try her hand a making an apple cake from scratch. To the King Arthur Baking cook book for ideas and within a few minutes, she had a recipe and a plan. Apple cake was in our future and I was supportive!
King Arthur Flour cook book is a gold standard in my opinion when it comes to baking. I took a bread-making class there years ago. I brought home a wonderful loaf of homemade bread and homemade noodles. I came away with a better understanding of some dos and don'ts when baking bread. But I have yet to achieve a consistency and repeatable success. Good baking still withholds secrets from me and my impatience is never helpful.
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The Night the Lights Went Out in Georgia. Background story; Vicki Lawrence
I came across this a few days ago and realized that has been decades since I have heard this song. Also I did not know the background to the writing of the song and Vicki Lawrence singing it. I wonder how many of you visiting here today have even heard the song, let alone the story. It has been well over 50 years.
I always have liked songs and music like this that tell a story.
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SETTING TRAP
Armadillo activity out back last night and in the process of setting up one of the traps now. We'll see!
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NACHOS FOR LUNCH
Son sent this a few days ago. I could have helped make short work of that lunch!!
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CROSS-WIND LANDING GONE WRONG from the looks of it.
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COBRA BACK SEAT INSTRUMENT PANEL RVN 1969
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JIBBER JABBER
Memory Lane. I found myself going through old photo graphs and memories last week. With each of the photographs I stopped on, copied and pasted into a folder on my desk top, were stories I would like to tell. But they would be like asking someone to sit and watch old home movies that really only have great memories of the person who lived the photos. Regardless, here are two of my favorites.
My first car was a 1956 Chev with a 265 cu in engine and a three speed on the column. I started saving for this when I was 12 years old because that was the era of getting a drivers license, cruising and playing with cars. This photo was taken at my grandparents home/ranch in Raymond Washington. I can still conjure up the sounds and feelings of going through the gears and running down the road. It was and still is "cool" today. Ask any "old man" about his first car and he will sit and tell stories like they happened yesterday. Today, when I alone in my truck and running the highway, I turn up the oldies, sing along, feeling the freedom of the road. It is all still very very good.
MY SON'S FIRST CAR
Yep, he loved this truck and also has more stories to tell which most of them are not known by his father. That is just fine because he also got all of the experiences of learning mechanics of maintenance and the enjoyment of having his first car in high school. Today, he can fix anything mechanical.
Thanks for the visit this week.






































